It is good to stay busy. I have had a tight schedule over the past couple days, every free moment I have should be occupied by a commitment, between Dexter’s Kin, working as a waiter and trying to move all at the same time. Let’s just say I have been pretty busy for the month of May.

Progress is being made however. After my first approved apartment fell through due to extended renovations, I was forced to find something last minute :/ After looking for about a week with no success, the broker I was working with came through in the last minute and found me the perfect apartment, even better then the first!! I guess everything happens for a reason.

Now that the apartment is found, I still need to pack and move. Maybe I don’t need that fifth guitar after all…lets just say that I have enough musical equipment for three people. But I like to write on different instruments, from different perspectives. Moving is always a pain but there is nothing like the feeling of being all done and sitting down for the first time in the new pad. Ah…I can’t wait!!

Dexter’s Kin has been busy writing new material and are gearing up to independently record our new material so we can get something new to our fans. Look out for a new track to be released shortly and get ready for a whole new live entertaining experience for our new live show. We are super excited to show the world what we have been working on for the last six months and we hope you will give it a listen!!

Until then, follow our progress on FaceBook and follow me on Twitter @andrewlynchdk to stay updated on my daily happenings.

‘Til next time,

Andrew

As some of my close friends know, I’m not particularly “healthy”. Stress plays an important role for me. When my stress level’s high, I get sick. It’s not a sickness where I’ll be in bed debilitated. I get sick at the stomach. The continuous excitement brought about by stress makes my stomach churn; in turn, makes me sick. I’ve been hospitalized twice because of it. Yup, it sucks.

I do as much as I can to avoid stress. I workout to relieve the stress. I try to meditate every morning to find my peace, and I try to avoid unnecessary conflicts. When it comes to work and close relationships, I try my best to confront problems quickly. And as much as possible, I try not to marinate in my sorrow.

I read somewhere that when everything you do comes from love, your work and relationships will be effortless. The article also says that we should analyze our emotions and it’s intentions. Is our purpose to give pain or love?

Granted, there are people that will hurt you. At times, I struggle to not hate… to not hurt them… And I would remind myself of the good things that person and I shared. Whatever moments they were, they were good. I may have been hurt, but I have learned.

I’m grateful that I cope well. I’m grateful for my life. I’m grateful for my talents. I’m grateful that I have family and friends that support and love me. And I’m grateful that I have a lot of love to give to the people that love me.

As always, thank you guys for your support!! I have a lot of love for you guys! If it wasn’t for you… we are – nothing. I mean this…

We’re about to do a photo shoot with the help of Topman. I can’t believe that one of my favorite stores is providing us clothes to wear. It’s unbelievable. The Topman Staff were also very accommodating. Awesome experience all around. Soon, my friends, we’ll be showing off pics.

Me at Topman Showroom, NY

From left to right: Andrew (bass), Bryan (guitar), and Assaf (drums) . I didn’t get to take a pic of Harrison (keys). Sorry Harrison! lol

To wrap up this post… the most wonderful person in my life left me a gift last night. She always does this… From office supplies, stuffed animals, or food… she’d give. Mom… you’re the best!

Love,
Paul

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I think we should all take just a minute to read this article I found regarding happiness. To give you a little taste, it’s about finding happiness in life. Why do we even live life to begin with? To be happy. Plain and simple. Whatever you do, whoever you help, your goal is to somehow find happiness in the outcome. The article brings up some great points. How many times have you found yourself thinking “man if I just get his job I’ll be happy,” or “if I just find someone to love I’ll be happy.” I must admit that I myself fall into this more than I would like to. This article (quite briefly in fact) scientifically explains why happiness comes first and in turn success is more likely to result.

It’s pretty much the most important thing in your life so it’s worth looking into.

Link: http://www.nextavenue.org/blog/scientific-proof-happiness-choice

Me,
Asaf

Although I certainly make a few less blanket fort spaceships at this age, I’m still pretty fascinated by space, and often find myself drawn to articles that I find that deal with the subject. There has been some pretty exciting stuff to happen recently that I’m sure has flooded your Facebook newsfeeds for some time now, but I’m also sure some of it slipped by your notice at some point. Most recently was the whole mission to Mars and all the pictures and information that came from that. I, for one, probably read about every article there was to read and then some. It was a pretty exciting time, to say the least.

Another exciting article that I found recently was the discovery of a few “Earth’s twin” planets that exist in the habitable zone in the orbits of their stars, and could possibly even sustain life. This was pretty big news in my opinion, which really surprises me to have only seen it pop up once on my news feed so far. Pictures of Mars are cool, sure, but an Earth twin?? That’s pretty awesome. Spread the word.

Although I have no idea where these discoveries will lead us or what information will surface from it, I’m sure I’m not the only person who believes that Earth cannot possibly be the only life-sustaining planet in existence. Maybe they even have dinosaurs. Who knows? What I am sure of, however, is that if there is intelligent life out there, they would be huge fans of our band’s new music as well. So if they want free copies of our new recordings we’re making, they better figure out a way to get over here quickly! And bring me a lightsaber or something cool like that. Seriously.

To infinity and beyond, may the Force be with you, live long and prosper, etc,
- Harrison

In the year 2013, we are pretty fortunate, in my opinion. We are living in an era of technological change. The change is owed to the development of computing technology: microchips and circuit boards are being fabricated with new state of the art polymers and fiber optics. Soon, perhaps even nanotechnology making the components “nanoscopic.” We also are experiencing the evolution of the World Wide Web: the development of virtual worlds and social networks that are super powerful and inconceivably influential in modern society. When you look at the current state of these modern 21st century technologies you can already see the impact on our culture and the generations that are coming of age.

The world is becoming open. Information is everywhere, at your fingertips. There isn’t much you couldn’t find through research. The expressive individuals also use the web to supply the countless pages with opinions/views or their lives in general. There isn’t much for privacy anymore, but seems the youth are content with the penalties arisen from publishing their lives for the world to see

I’m going to try to imagine the future. Where will this path of increasingly progressive computing and networking technologies lead us? It may be cliché, but I can’t help but imagine a world similar to the, “Matrix.” Maybe not so much machines taking over the planet, but it would be machines, computers, programs, and networks designed to be super powerful and versatile, responsible for the regulation of all things. They would create reality for us. The artificial intelligence would be the closest network of machines ever to emulate conscious intelligence by being able to react to numerous stimuli and the conditioned reflex. Our homes our vehicles, and even our nutrition and health, would be interactive by machines, digitally programed and would respond to our every need. Our world would be 80% digital, our reality would change. Like in the “Matrix” the digital representations of objects and structures would be equal to “real” but it wouldn’t actually be there physically in the sense many things are today. You’ll have to decide what real is for you. If we perceive the world around us to be true through every sense we possess, and conclude so introspectively, than why shouldn’t it be true or “real?” This revelation seems realistic to me, but it changes the integrity of reality. What a scary world it would be. The power would be in the hands of the programmer. The funny thing is, I feel like it already is.

Bryan Christopher (guitar)

Dexter’s Kin has started the recording process!! Stay with us as we’ll be releasing some new songs sooooon!

This winter never got too cold, not a lot of snow here in NY. It instead had decided to remain cold well into April! I’m sure summer will be here soon and we will be begging for cold weather again!!

One thing I plan to do this summer in my neighborhood is visit the Brooklyn botanical garden, which I have yet to do after living in the neighborhood for almost a year. I also made a vow to go to the park more this summer. I hardly ever go, but I have a great time every time I decide to make the trip )

Dexters Kin has been writing, a lot. Personally I have been writing more than ever and I am having the time of my life, maturing as a songwriter and learning new things about it everyday. We are preparing a lot of material to select for our upcoming release(s).

Stay tuned on Facebook for more and to keep up with our daily posts!! View, comment and feel free to interact, WE LOVE OUR FANS!! Seriously, maybe too much…

Best,
Andrew

Personally I dislike hearing myself whine about being “bored” due to the following: A. Whining about it doesn’t really address the problem and B. Most people who complain about being bored are just looking for instant gratification. So… What to do when I find myself “bored”.

1. I try to figure out “why” I’m bored

2. If I can’t figure out why, It’s most likely because I’m on a routine – which means it’s time to do something different. A trip to the mall usually fixes it. My to do list in the mall: a. People watch b. Check out new Gadgets c. Window Shop d. Try on clothes

3. I think of what I can do to help achieve my goals. I visualize what I want to be and what I want to become. This can get dangerous (for me). Sometimes I go overboard and obsess over it (I redesign the website/etc). But hey, it killed boredom

4. I work out.

5. I create a to-do-list for that week/month

6. I avoid youtube along with TV. Instead, I call close friends and set up a movie date.

Most of the time, boredom is only a mindset. So once I feel like the phrase, “I’m bored…” creeping in – it only means — it’s time for me to get up and do something else.

Well, hope that helped and I’m also hoping that I didn’t bore you. If I did, get the fuck up and go do something else!

-
Paul

#2 – Keeping the peace in Jerusalem with the commanding officer

#3 – My pops showing some love by the Western (aka Wailing) wall

#4 – Found a small contingent of young Israeli soldiers. I decided they’d be my security detail. They decided it was more fun to mess with me…

#5 – Inside the cavern of the wailing wall, some peeps be getting their Jew on…heavily. So much heart.

#6 – In the outdoor market of Jerusalem, the famous “Shook Machneh Yehudah” they get really serious with their desserts.

#7 – Having Shabbas dinner with the family. Lots of yummy Middle Eastern food!

#8 & 9 – Hanging out with the new editions to the Nisim family of Israel

#10 – Reconnecting with an old friend from birthright. Love you Sarai!

#11 – Cousins out on the town in Tel Aviv getting silly.

#12 – Cousin Love

#13 – Bahai Gardens in Haifa. What an amazingly beautiful city!

#14 – Another close friend from my birthright trip. We hit the clubs and danced the night away…it was magical. Gal (that’s his name. it means “wave”) is a boss.

#15 – Gal’s family not wanted me to leave hehe. I don’t blame you, I’m awesome! ;P

#16 – Taking in the beach in Netanya. Man it’s cold in NYC

Last week, I had the pleasure of leaving the tropical winter climate of New York City to visit my friends and family back home in Illinois. One of my favorite things about traveling is the plane ride. You never know who you’re going to be sat next to during the ride, and I always end up striking up a conversation with them. The conversations may never serve much of a point or go anywhere profound, but it’s always interesting for me to have a brief insight into the lives of other people.
On the way to Illinois, I arrived at my assigned seat to find a rather attractive girl was sitting next to me. So far so good. I put my carry-on in the overheard compartment, helping her put her bag and her coat up there as well, and then took my seat. As always, finding enough room in the overhead compartments quickly transitioned into chaos as the bins began to fill up. I joked with her as we watched the passengers and flight attendants argue with each other and we shared a laugh over the whole situation.

Success. Laughing is always a good sign… at least I think it is. I assumed that the humorous scene and the laugh we shared would serve as an icebreaker and a jumping off point to start up a conversation.

I asked her where she was from. “Missouri,” she answered.

I waited a moment, thinking she would continue talking. Silence.

“From St. Louis?” I replied, since our plane’s destination was St. Louis.

“No.”

Silence yet again. Well this is awkward. I’m now 0/2 for attempts at making conversation with her.

She sighed and reached into her bag for her headphones, placing them on her ears and turning her head in the opposite direction. Confused, I looked towards the window and made brief eye contact with the elderly lady sitting on the other side of me. She laughed to herself and shook her head, smiling.

Not funny, lady. Not funny.

To no surprise, the girl fell asleep once the plane took off and left immediately as soon as the plane landed. So much for that.

At least on the ride back to New York, I got to talk to a very interesting older man. He was a photographer most of his life, but a recent stroke rendered his right hand shaky and his left hand uncoordinated. He could no longer work a camera, and he was forced to give up a passion that had been such a huge part of his life up to that point. We continued to talk for the entire 3 hour plane ride.

Although I had never seen him before and will most likely never see him again, he spoke to me with such interest of my life that surprised me. Despite how hard it must have been for him to have to give up photography, his love for the arts and for teaching what he had learned throughout his life to his students kept him going. “Living vicariously through the camera work of my students” is how he referred to it. He then asked all about my life and passed along all of his advice for living a healthy and a happy life. If only I had been able to take notes the whole time…

“You would be perfect for one of my daughters,” he informed me as we walked off the plane. “Too bad she’s over 40 years old now.”

Stranger things have happened, I’m sure, but he’s probably right. I was honored that he thought that highly of me after only knowing me for a few hours, though.

I shook his hand and we said our goodbyes as he walked off to fetch his luggage.

So for now, it’s back into the busy New York environment while we continue writing and recording new music to share with you guys. Keep checking back in for updates!

Harrison

I’m going to hypothesize by choosing one particular reason that hasn’t really been stated outright in the scientific essays and literature I’ve read, but a reason that I have deduced by simply inferring and acknowledging in a common theme present in many of their works. Philosophy! Philosophy is arguably the missing link. Philosophy is the missing link because it helps us on thinking about problems, while also encompassing how to think. I’m not convinced the majority of us are familiar with how to think. Yes, this seems to be a treacherous accusation, but we are all in the same damn overly saturated boat. For the most part we are all born with a cognitive mind that is designed to compute basic observations and interpretations of external perception and introspection. The quandary is the lack of angles, the lack of cerebral syntax-the flexibility of our brains. We are trained at a young age on how to learn, how to study, what to study, what is relevant. This is a partial failure. These educational methods aren’t complete. They contribute to the lack of our capacity on approaching issues from multiple angles with various forms of precision. This handicap is also what leads to our inability to develop that strong bond with the sciences of which we are prematurely overfed. This was a revelation to me. I am in love with the sciences that make up our common understanding of the world we live in, but the lack of a strong, primed, philosophical mind, one that is unhindered in the thought process, is an essential tool to possess in order to approach the sciences appropriately, so I now believe.

Recently, I’ve begun to read a book written by Bertrand Russell, a philosopher from the early to mid 20th century. The book is titled ”An Outline on Philosophy”. I felt that it would be a good start to my newer quest: To develop intellectually and to prepare my mind with the philosophical base it would need to: transcend a common mode of thinking, and to observe the world and the sciences. I’m already familiar with Russell’s work as a philosopher and I had found common agreements he and I share in regards to ideologies through the other scientific literature I had already been reading. So I begin, again.

Where this will lead me will hopefully be a place where,” in the ripeness of instinct and discretion it (skepticism) will be safely exchanged for fidelity and happiness.”-George Santayana

Bryan Christopher (Guitar)

*New Music Coming Soon!! Look out for the release dates to come